Telling Her You Are A Crossdresser And Getting Her Acceptance

I know there are some Sissy CD's who have very strong desires in the way they want the relationship to go, beyond just dressing.  Let's not go all the way there now, but let's look at some ways to get her open to the idea of you dressing.  You do have to remember that the idea of you dressing is about YOU, so you need to come up with ways to make it as much about HER and what she will like.

Communication is very important in any relationship, and in this exercise you are trying to find ways to get her more receptive.  If you are somebody already dressing and taking steps outside the house and she doesn't know about it, be very careful about hooking up with people.  I would advise against it at least until she knows and approves.  Otherwise, you're asking for trouble.

1-Attentive To Her Needs: This means what it means.  In bed, around the house, listening to her.  Don't zone out on her.  She will pick up on your attentiveness.

2-She's A Woman: Women like to feel pretty and appreciated. Treat her to new lingerie, clothes or beauty treatments, and actually go when you can.  Take an interest and occasionally make comments that border on sounding like you would want it too.  Whether complimenting a nail color or the color and fabric of the panties.

3-Do things She Wants To Do:  When something is happening that you want to do, but she has other things in mind, go with her idea.  Let her have the remote control even when there's a game you want to watch.

4-Moves With Crossdressing in them: This is a good way to spark conversation.  There's a scene with a CD in it or it's in there quite a bit, bonus if he actually looks pretty good dressed up.  It's a good place to start conversation and gauge her reaction.

5-Make Bets: You can make bets on things, the winner gets what they want.  You can even lose on purpose at first to see how much she is really into it.  Or, you can win and push her to dress sexy, going so far as to pick her outfit and commenting on the fabric.  Next bet, you lose.  With this element, you never know what will happen and an opening may come.

6-Trade Fantasies: We'll do one for you and one for me.  You can go after a weekend enfemme with her help.  The question really is, what is HER fantasy?  Be prepared for anything and be ready to do whatever it is.

7-Open Talk Slightly Buzzed: Have drinks, but not too much.  This needs to be remembered.  Just loose enough to talk openly about things.  You may be able to get to the subject of dress up that way.

8-A Drag Show: Take her to a drag show just for the heck of it.  You get to be designated driver, but the plus is she can get that buzz.  As the show goes, you can gauge her reaction and push the conversation to you dressing up.

9-Do The Laundry: Make t a point to do the laundry and fold the laundry in her presence if possible, especially when it comes to lingerie.  This could also open the door to more possibilities.

These are just some ideas of how to get her receptive to the idea of you dressing.  You know her better than we do, but if you can get her open to it, your relationship could get more interesting.  Maybe it's more fun in the bedroom, maybe there's role play with her in a more dominant role.  It could mean anything.  Communication and honesty are the key.  If you feel the conversation going badly or the time just isn't right, use discretion.  That doesn't mean give up, just regroup and try a  new strategy.