Sometimes She Wants Him To Dress Up, But He Doesn't

I think about all the sissies and crossdressers who are married and don't tell their wives.  It's a subject that makes me sad.  I get why they don't tell them, but what's sad is that they were doing this long before they met Her in many cases.  They only stopped for Her.  They love Her and don't want to lose Her.  They promise themselves they'll quit too.

You know how that goes.  They have a private stash hidden somewhere, maybe the attic or basement or garage.  Then, when She goes somewhere, they slip into some panties and whatever else they may want to wear.  I wish they could just talk about this, but they have good not to.  Many women don't react well to this.  Some are okay with this and his wife may be one if them, but why take the chance?

Then you have the other side of the fantasy.  Ironically, it's the husband who wants no part of this.  But She wants it.  Often times it's just to spice things up in the bedroom.  She wants him in a pair of panties, maybe some stockings and one of her nighties.  She thinks it's sexy and is turned on by this.  By now, there are some sissies who are jealous.  It gets worse.

He is repulsed by it, and She knows it.  Maybe She won't ask because She knows he's think it's "gay" to do something like this.  Maybe She has asked, and he refused.  Either way, it's not going to happen for Her.  The irony here is that this is a woman who is accepting of a husband who dresses.  She may be in to bedroom role play at first, but that could lead further to things like gong out together dressed up or Her taking on a dominant role in a D/s relationship.

But, he will NEVER go for it.  He's been preconditioned.  He believes it's gay, and he's not about to talk about it either.  He's taken his stance.  No way.  Of course, many of these particular guys wouldn't blink twice if his wife asked to bring another woman into the bedroom, even if just for Her to play with.  But him getting dressed up and having some hot sex with a willing and living wife is just not going to happen with him.

The reality is this has happened this way too.  You know it has.  It's more common that a husband wants to dress with Her but either can't even bring it up to Her or has brought it up to a very bad reaction.  But there are wives out there who want the husband to dress up.  It would be nice if we could begin to open people's minds to the fact that this is nothing to be ashamed of.

If a couple wants to experiment with a little dress up play or some D/s action with Her in charge, they should feel free and unashamed to do it. It's a shame people feel they have to cave into the shame and fear caused by society and certain dogmas that are designed to control us all.

Would you attend a sissy wonderland if one was available?

Mistress Char has a pole  at Sissy Social that asks an interesting question.  Here is the link, and I'll put the question  below it.

Would you attend a sissy wonderland if one was available?

Would you attend a sissy wonderland if one was available?

If there were a very discrete and private place where you could go dress up and have the gurlist time of your life, would you want to go there? This place would have lots of like minded, loving and accepting sissies and real women attendees that are there to help you with any aspect of your desired sissy goals. These real women have studied this arena and have experience through the passion they have for assisting gurls to be their best. This place would have everything under 1 roof, making it much easier for you to get your gurly on without worrying about leaving because you need something.

What this Sissy Studio is All About:

1-Being able to dress up with the help of women who are well studied in the art of feminization.

2-There would be a private dressing and make up room for you to get ready. Plus, a make up artist to help you with that if you wish.

3-There would be counseling available to help you explore your feminine feelings or to help with couples dealing with this together.

4-There would be gurly nights out to friendly clubs and other places

5-There would be inside parties with lots of fun stuff to do.

6-There would be sissy bff's assigned to guide you if you wish.

7-There would be lockers you can rent to store all of your gurly things safely so there is no more need to run around tossing everything you have because you are afraid someone will find it.

8-A Domme would be available to help you with any necessary punishment or training, if that is your thing.

9-There would be a store with clothes (for sale or rent), wigs, make up, lingerie, shoes, stockings and hose, costumes and the entire list of things we need to get you all gussied up.

10-There would be showers and a bathroom for the end of your visit before you head back out to testosteroneville.

This would be like "Alice In Wonderland" only it will be for sissies, and I can assure you there is no other cross dresser club or studio like this!

Please give me your votes according to your thoughts on such a dreamy place. The more feedback and votes we get the better we can gauge how well we can do if we open this wonderful studio. Please let us know in the comments any ideas or suggestions you may have as well. And remember to tell all your gurlfriends to vote, Tweet, and share this poll ok? Thank You ladies

Welcome To The House Of Feminization

We've decided to start this blog, though it won't be our home on the web for long.  We plan to be at dresspretty4mistress.com soon as the page is being developed, complete with blog, message board, chat room and lots and lots of things we think you will enjoy.

I tend to write a lot, but this is a brief post to tell you what we're all about here.

1-We want all CD's/Sissies/T-Girls to be proud of who they are without all the shame and guilt.  We know that's difficult for some with all of the hate and judgement in society.  So, we are creating a presence on the web with an eye towards a physical place you can visit as the girl you know you are without judgement, but with support from women and those whose who are out and comfortable dressing as they are.

2-Taking those first steps to dress up can be difficult for some, so we want to help them with advice and tips on what to do, depending on what their situation is.  Some people can do more than others, but that doesn't mean you can't do something to explore your feminine side.

3-We want to promote loving and understanding relationships between CD's and their wives.  This is NOT always easy for genetic women to accept for a variety of reasons.  We believe this can bring a couple closer together, and that in the process, women may discover more about themselves that will make them happier.  We believe it can make that relationship even stronger

4-We want to promote love, tolerance and acceptance for all in the T community in society.  We believe if you don't like it, you don't have to try to hurt the people who do.  The girls and boys of the Trans Community are NOT bad for being who they are.  Society had placed a lot of hateful labels on people, and we want to destroy those judgmental labels.

5-What two consenting adults do in their own privacy is NOBODY'S BUSINESS.  Nobody is forcing you to join or even watch, so move on if you don't like it.

This is only a part of who we are, but this is just to give you an idea.  We will add more in the days ahead.

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