Sometimes She Wants Him To Dress Up, But He Doesn't

I think about all the sissies and crossdressers who are married and don't tell their wives.  It's a subject that makes me sad.  I get why they don't tell them, but what's sad is that they were doing this long before they met Her in many cases.  They only stopped for Her.  They love Her and don't want to lose Her.  They promise themselves they'll quit too.

You know how that goes.  They have a private stash hidden somewhere, maybe the attic or basement or garage.  Then, when She goes somewhere, they slip into some panties and whatever else they may want to wear.  I wish they could just talk about this, but they have good not to.  Many women don't react well to this.  Some are okay with this and his wife may be one if them, but why take the chance?

Then you have the other side of the fantasy.  Ironically, it's the husband who wants no part of this.  But She wants it.  Often times it's just to spice things up in the bedroom.  She wants him in a pair of panties, maybe some stockings and one of her nighties.  She thinks it's sexy and is turned on by this.  By now, there are some sissies who are jealous.  It gets worse.

He is repulsed by it, and She knows it.  Maybe She won't ask because She knows he's think it's "gay" to do something like this.  Maybe She has asked, and he refused.  Either way, it's not going to happen for Her.  The irony here is that this is a woman who is accepting of a husband who dresses.  She may be in to bedroom role play at first, but that could lead further to things like gong out together dressed up or Her taking on a dominant role in a D/s relationship.

But, he will NEVER go for it.  He's been preconditioned.  He believes it's gay, and he's not about to talk about it either.  He's taken his stance.  No way.  Of course, many of these particular guys wouldn't blink twice if his wife asked to bring another woman into the bedroom, even if just for Her to play with.  But him getting dressed up and having some hot sex with a willing and living wife is just not going to happen with him.

The reality is this has happened this way too.  You know it has.  It's more common that a husband wants to dress with Her but either can't even bring it up to Her or has brought it up to a very bad reaction.  But there are wives out there who want the husband to dress up.  It would be nice if we could begin to open people's minds to the fact that this is nothing to be ashamed of.

If a couple wants to experiment with a little dress up play or some D/s action with Her in charge, they should feel free and unashamed to do it. It's a shame people feel they have to cave into the shame and fear caused by society and certain dogmas that are designed to control us all.