Hey all! I have been with my sissy boy for about 3 months now. I am completely new to this whole sissy/mistress thing. I feel like I need some new material/scenarios/story ideas or just about anything. Here are some things that my sissy and I enjoy...
Talking about dressing up/make up
Stories about pimping her slutty ass out on the street corner
She LOVEESS cum so a lot of talk about that
She loves her pussy (asshole) fingered and fucked like a dirty whore
Compliments about how pretty she is
Loves black men
Talk about getting used like a slutty fuck toy
Etc etc
There's a lot more but can't think of all of it right now. I just feel like I need more material. I'm planning on getting a strap on and buying a collar and leash...I'm gonna glam up the collar and write "sissy cum whore" on it...
But anyone have any other ideas based on what I wrote?? Thanks!
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course, I had a lengthy response.
So a sensual Mistress? What a lucky Sissy. Maybe I'm not really in a position to answer too much here. I may be entering into a D/s relationship, and it's causing me to analyze things so I know how we would both proceed. I'm new to it, but I have written about it and respect the lifestyle. A lot of things are running through my mind now.
Back to your post, since it sounds like you are beginners and that's what I will be. Writing fantasy doesn't count... ;)
Chastity. I personally don't have the problem of being controlled by what's inside my panties, but I'll submit to this nonetheless. It's an act of submission and devotion to Mistress. Sissy's cum should be controlled by Mistress. The pleasure of Mistress comes first, always.
Plug your sissy. She needs to be ready for that strap on, so a small or medium butt plug to start with.
While she's locked, she needs to learn to be attentive to Your needs. This means she should become a good oral sissy for You.
Have her do things for you. Go get you a drink, fix you something to eat, massage your feet. She needs to learn to be attentive Your needs.
Additionally, get her a Maid's Uniform and make her serve you and clean house from time to time. Maybe have a guest over who is into this, just to show what a good sissy she is.
Light bondage. Not everybody's thing. Maybe start with arms restrained to the bed or something. Hand cuffs. Nothing too severe. But she's not going anywhere while you are gone. You can take it up a notch if you both like it.
Add to the excitement by plugging her and locking her in chastity first. Then, go where you need to go.
Discipline your sissy. Does not have to be hard pain. A nice spanking here or there. Add some verbal reinforcement to it to make your point clear. She needs to learn how to please Mistress and not to disappoint Her.
Various degrees of humiliation, start light. Maybe a few comments here and there in pubic. Maybe she has lipstick on when you go somewhere or some female clothing. This does not need to be near home if you worry about being seen. Then take it from there.
Another level. This isn't everybody's cup of tea. Not sure how I would feel about some of it...
Take sissy to a truck stop or adult book store or some place dressed up and make her orally service a man. If you are already talking about it, why not?
Mistress may need a man to please Her while Sissy gets to watch in chastity. Sissy attends to whatever Mistress and Her man need, and that includes oral or more if requested.
Most importantly, talk this stuff out before you start a scene. It must be understood that Mistress calls the shots once the scene is in play. No topping from the bottom, or sissy trying to change the rules mid scene. This is about BOTH of your happiness, not just sissy.
I hope something here helps, and best of luck to both of you.
And I added in the next post
I assume sissy still portrays as a man in public, due to work obligations? I'm out full time dressed.
Other ideas
1-Sissy wears panties and cami underneath male clothes. Cami may not be as easily detectable as a bra, but Sissy will be reminded of her place. Stockings and garters can be added.
2-Paint her toe nails. A pretty pink or red should do nicely. She will have shoes on, but she will know. A ritual will be for her to take her shoes and socks off immediately upon coming home.
In fact, painted toe humiliation can come into play if you want, where she wears flip flops from time to time in public.
3-Take her shopping with you for female clothes for both of you. Get her to participate in it. When you pick something, ask her what she thinks, why she thinks that. This can be done a town over from where you live if needed, but it can be a good D/s bonding experience I think.
3a-Mistresses have been known to tie a sissy up, go out and buy an outfit for the sissy, making sissy wait plugged and in chastity for quite some time.
4-Send her to the store for an errand with a plug inserted. It will be a reminder to her who is in charge, and she won't dawdle. She'll be sure to get what you want and get home.
4a-Take it up a notch by having her buy your feminine hygiene products or makeup or other items while plugged and with lingerie underneath her clothing.
5-Make her wear lingerie to bed if she doesn't already. She is a sissy after all.
6-Make her smooth all over, A full body wax, shaving, hair removal creme. Unless she is in a spot where she really can't, and these days men go hairless too. What this does is heightens her sissiness and makes her silky feminine under clothing feel that much better to her.
7-If she doesn't have a feminine name, give her one. Maybe you both discuss it, or maybe you pick one. If you are feeling nice, you can let her pick one.
Since you are in a sense bringing a new sissy into the world, it's only fair you name her.
8-What do you want from this? Sissy is loving this treatment I bet, so what do you want her to do for You?
Tease and denial, meaning no cum for Your sissy. Having sissy paint Your nails for You. Really, the only limit is what you two want to do.
This is mostly pretty mild stuff compared to where it can go, but that's for each D/s couple to determine. There's NO wrong way if you are both enjoying it.
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